Volunteer with TransVisibility and move the vision forward
it seems the original set of volunteers got busy and are unable to fulfil their respective roles. I am now looking for volunteers to help move the TransVisibility.com vision of global unity and acceptance forward. Bloggers, Writers, assistant editors, and an executive editor positions are all available. So stop sitting on the sidelines and make a positive difference. Or if you are already involved in the community, we would love your help over at the TransVisibility Camp.
moderators are also being sought for http://www.TGender.com a 100% free transgender specific support, social networking and Dating website. Yes you read right, 100 % free. No charge for anything, including chat.
if you are interested, drop me a note via the contact page
I love things like cuddling and chillaxing, and watching music videos or anime. I wanted to be Mom, master chef, and counselor. I want to have dependents in my life...
Thats where Bonita comes in. She's my dog and she's a beautiful dachshund I think she could win a dog show. I've met other trans through meetings and they spoke about raising their children. I never had any before and I am unable to have children now. I am not sure if I would have made a good parent.
For one thing, I am a extremist either a perfectionist or perfect failure. Luckily, I have been able to share moments with family members' nieces and nephews long enough for me to yearn for that mothering bond.
I would like to be Auntie, I would like to go out to arcades and dinners and adventures, museums, and picnics at parks. Unfortunately, there's a side of me that wants to withdraw and hide myself from children. Because, honestly, I don't want them to be like me... it's not that being trans is a bad thing. I just feel like I would be guilty having "enlightened" someone to the LGBT world... but I guess that's the REAL world and no one should be sheltered from truth.
Honestly, is very important to me that's one of the motivating factors for coming out, for being yourself. Not being some facet of a princess cut trying to catch the attention of others or fit in to certain circles or 'rings" of people, while in the process cutting off the very characteristics which make us unique. I like flawed gems, I like one of a kind items, I like the hand beaten jewelry that love was poured into. Thats what I want to do pour love into my relationships.
Bonita, is perfect for that. I look at her and see myself. There's that woman longing for friendship and companionship. Also there's a beautiful and intelligent heart. I talk to Bonita as a friend as a human and she understands. Even if she doesn't talk much but I can still decipher her tongue licks as if it were morse code. She longs to be by my side and tries to go with me wherever. I can't even take a shower without her waiting patiently for me to get out and throw her favorite beanie baby chew toy around (I think she despises yellow and red — because she ripped off Ronald McDonald's Head). She opens the screen door herself and even sliding glass doors — Imagine using your face to slide one wall of your house! Anyways all of her different facets are wonderful and it really brightens my day to have her. I wonder if that's how mom's feel?